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QT Friday: Last Day and St. Michael

8/31/2012

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Best guys ever
Today is my last day of work at my current job.  Starting on Tuesday, after the holiday, I begin working with the Archdiocese of Philadelphia. 

Tuesday simply cannot come fast enough.  :)

However, today I am doubly grateful for my direct supervisor who has sustained me these last few years.  He is a true gem and someone I was always happy to work for.  His boss, too.  :)  My love for and appreciation of both those men are what brought me into work each morning. 


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Poor thing is shredded
I went on a veil buying binge Wednesday night.  It was terrible.  And by terrible, I mean amazing.  :)

All my Garlands of Grace ones wore themselves out, and due to their verbal misstep a few months back, I've found myself Catholic-friendly vendors with exquisite products. 

If you aren't already a fan, may I suggest to you the following for all your veiling needs:


Veils by Lily
Liturgical Time
A Snood for All Seasons (A Woman's Place)
Happy Homestead



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Vince and Ray
My brother, Ray, bought his very first house!  To celebrate, John, Vincent and I took him out for dinner.  He chose a new Hibachi place near his house, so Vincent got to experience his first Hibachi!!! 

He was super scared of the fire, so he kept covering his eyes, afraid that the chef was going to keep surprising him with huge bursts of flame.  He got over it pretty fast, though, and happily ate his rice and noodles. 

There was a brief accident before the food came out that had John, Ray and I scrambling to mop up after Vince, but otherwise, it was a great time all around!


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Yay family picture!
Vincent also got to experience his first trip to the circus!!!

We have a circus that comes around every year, and John decided that this would be a good time to take Vincent.  I agreed, and we were able to enjoy front-and-center tickets to a really amazing show! 

I loved the acrobats the most.  Vince loved the man running around in a giant hamster ball.  John loved the motorbikes riding around in a steel cage. 


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Lucca
Now that Vincent is starting to be interested in video games, John (an avid retro gamer) has been introducing him to games like Mega Man, Sonic and Zelda. 

On his own, however, he's been playing another older game for nostalgia.  It's called Chrono Trigger and it's actually his favorite game from when he was a child. 

Anyway, one of the character's names is "Lucca."  I caught my breath again when I saw that name randomly pop up as the character introduced itself.  Just thought that was interesting, especially because the night before, I had had a dream in which I gave birth to a little boy.  I couldn't decide if I should call him Luca or Nathan, but ended up introducing him to my brother as "Luca Nathaniel."  


I've had Luca on the brain!


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I got to spend an hour and a half at Adoration the other day.  There is a beautiful adoration chapel near my home that has a very unique monstrance / tabernacle.  The laity is encouraged to approach the Blessed Sacrament that is enclosed within the tabernacle and unhinge the doors so as to "open" the monstrance in order to view the Host. 

I wasn't sure if I could approach the monstrance / tabernacle combo, because I felt as part of the laity I was not supposed to touch the sacred vessel.  I asked Father Z from WDTPRS about it, and he was kind enough to dedicate an entry to answering me.  That can be found here.

Anyway, considering I'm not a EMHC, I won't touch the door.  So when I went to adoration and saw that the door was closed, I simply knelt before it and prayed without approaching.  Christ is present regardless of if I can see Him or not.

A few minutes later, a woman walked in for adoration and opened the monstrance.  I could feel her laughing at me... as if I didn't know I was supposed to open the door.  She stayed for about five or ten minutes, but when she left, she said "Please make sure you close the door."

I silently nodded.  I was thinking "Okay, Lord, you know I don't want to touch Your door because I don't think I'm supposed to.  If you don't want me touching it either, just send someone else to do it for me."

Don't ya know about 10 minutes later, someone else came for adoration?  :)  God is good.  I'm taking this as the sign similar to that I got last year.  Steer clear of touching His sacred vessels, because even with the best of intentions, it's not His Will.  For me, anyway.  Ha!



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Very early this morning I had a dream of St. Michael.  It was very brief, but incredibly intense.

I was home with Vincent.  I was on the phone with John (who was at work) trying to warn him of an approaching storm.  I looked out the window, and I saw a huge tornado swirling down the road towards John (who, for some reason, was on the roof several doors down).  It was sucking up buildings, trees, etc.  I saw it tearing apart everything.  I remember feeling intensely scared for John.  I kept yelling for him to take cover. 

The tornado suddenly stopped and lost its fury.  I watched as the debris began spilling forth from the mouth of the once furious tornado.  John, now thinking he was safe, didn't realize that the debris posed more of a threat than the tornado.  I was still yelling for him to take cover when I saw him.

It was Saint Michael.  I knew it the instant I saw him.  He was coming down from the sky, just off from where I saw John, and he was holding his sword above his head as if he were leading a battle charge.

What's odd about how he appeared to me is that he didn't appear as a full-colored "body" like I've seen in paintings and such.  Instead, he was an actual entity, but he was almost in negative... sorta like this:

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Sorry for the creepy effect, but I couldn't actually make out any of St. Michael's facial features.  He was enveloped in such a bright, bright light that it almost seemed to be coming out of him.  It was as if he was made out of light and the armor he wore somehow clung to the light that formed him.  Strange, right?  I dunno.  A photo-negative is the closest thing I can think of to what he looked like.

When I saw him, I felt such peace.  I knew that everything was going to be okay, but I also knew that we were in for a world of chaos.  He brought the knowledge that peace was coming, but before that peace, we'd be dealing with an incredibly destructive tornado of chaos. 

Upon seeing him, I turned back to find Vincent.  I dropped to my knees and began saying the Prayer to St. Michael over and over again.  Before I could find Vincent, though, my alarm woke me up.  Regardless, it was an amazing dream, and it's thus far stuck with me through the entire day.  St. Michael, pray for us.

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Rioter Fallout

8/30/2012

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Please be warned - the linked article has a moderately graphic image for some of you involving blood.  No bodies are shown, but blood smeared on the wall in letters is.

This is an article regarding the wave of anti-Christian crime that's been sweeping through Russia and the surrounding areas in the wake of the Riot sentencing.  A few people are now dead in connection to the crime-spree (whether capitalizing on the fame of the trial or not is to be determined) and countless churches and communities have been victimized through desecration, theft and violence. 

We are to be tried once more in the public square. Anti-Christian fervor is building, and we can expect more of this to spread even to within our own borders.

Arm yourselves, Church Militant. Prayer is your sword; the saints are your armor. Your battle cry is Truth and that Truth is Christ.
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Pedophilia and Psychology

8/30/2012

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Fr. Levi over at The Way Out There posted another article regarding the slipping of society as it falls further into the cesspool of degradation and disorder it seems hellbent on creating for itself.

The article deals with the "plight" of pedophiles who are demanding to be accepted as normal in the same way that homosexuals are now deemed "normal."  Incredibly, there are psychologists who want to help this along by removing Pedophilia from the list of mental disorders they list in their version of the Bible - the DSM. 

In an attempt to make people more aware that this was happening, I posted the link (along with the following commentary) onto my Facebook page:

'Cause no one saw this coming...

NAMBLA has been attempting to push for declassification of pedophilia for a while. So has IASHS. Homosexuality issue aside, this is severely disturbing that anyone in their right damn mind thinks it's even remotely okay to declassify this as a mental disorder.

Adults wanting to have sex with children is mentally disordered. There's simply no other way of looking at it.


"Oh, but these poor men and women who abused children must live with the stigma attached! They've gotta warn parents when they move into the area! They've gotta have 'the talk' with potential employers!"


Oh flippin' well. What about the children whose lives you shattered? What about what THEY are forced to endure for the rest of their lives?


You get to deal with moments of social awkwardness every now and again. They get to deal with shattered innocence, a void of trust, a shamed self-image, and the stigma of having endured your barbarity.


Your whining behind is lucky we don't still brand people on the forehead. Stop attempting to justify your mental disorder and just accept it for what it is so you can seek help to protect those children who you seek to harm!


BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE DOING! I don't care how much you think you love these children, you're outta your dang mind.


About 30 seconds later I got a "like" and an "AGREED!" comment (both from a family member of mine).  Another minute or so later, my good friend posted a video of the South Park parody that deals with NAMBLA's insistence that pedophilia is normal.  Otherwise, there was complete radio silence.

Now I'm not upset that I didn't get "likes" or "comments."  That's not why I post things.  I post them to educate... to make others aware.  However, I have to admit being slightly unsettled by the lack of feedback regarding this particular post.  Typically things this upsetting in nature solicit SOMETHING. 

My first thought was "Folks are steering clear of this because of the connection with homosexuality.  It makes them uneasy."

Well of course it does.  No one likes to look at the truth of this logic because it's somewhat similar to the crazy folks out there shouting that once we accept homosexuality, we'll accept people marrying goats, sheep or dinosaurs.

However, the fact remains that when a minority of folks force others to accept disordered conduct as a product of "It's just the way I am" then other minorities are able to do the same.  They're able to use the same arguments and the same tactics because from a logical standpoint, they've got accepted precedence. 

So I chalked it up to the fact that the majority of my friends are very pro-homosexual marriage and were bristling at the idea that I was advocating homosexuality and pedophilia being on the same wavelength (which I'm not... but people tend to automatically assume that about those of us who disagree with homosexual unions).

The next morning, though, I got two supremely disturbing messages through Facebook from a family member and an acquaintance I had gone to school with.  The first was from a family member who is both a woman, and a mother.  A MOTHER.  Keep that in mind.  The second was also from a woman (though she has no children).

Both stated very similar things, so I'll give you a quick summary. 

Gina, I would've posted this on your thread, but I didn't want to look like I condoned molestation.  The psychologists make a good argument for why pedophilia should be removed from the disorder list because they (the pedophilies) really can't help themselves.  It's unfair to be stigmatized for your entire life because of feelings you can't help.  They shouldn't have to suffer so cruelly just because they have strong affection for children.  They're good people, and they really try to love everyone.  There are chemical imbalances that make them aroused around children, and with the proper medicines, they could live out normal lives that don't involve harming children.

One even went so far as to suggest that children SHOULD be allowed to make the decision for themselves by the time they're 12 because "by that age, I was fully capable of deciding who I should or should not have sex with."

Go ahead and let that digest a little bit.

This person was 12 years old and already felt capable of deciding who she should or should not have sex with.  This means she was ALREADY deciding she SHOULD have sex with some folks (note that 'folks' is plural) at 12 years of age. 

Below is exactly how I felt upon reading those two letters.  I wanted to blast myself off the Earth because no... there is just no way that people can really, truly feel this way.  I simply do not want to live in a world that wishes to allow such perversion to walk around unabated because it's "just how they are."  NO.  My SON lives in this world, and allowing these folks to just "be who they are" without needing to warn ANY of the surrounding families leaves him open to some terrible, terrible things!


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I promptly wrote back (with less charity than I should have, I'm ashamed to admit) that they were part of the problem.

I was so taken aback by the mother who agreed with this declassification.  She has children!  How would she feel if we just allowed these people to move from town to town completely undetected so they could harm more children?  If her son or her daughter were abused by a pedophile who was disordered to the point of thinking the abuse is not only OK, but DESIRED by her child, how would she feel when this person was allowed to move on to a new city to begin the process again?  How would she feel knowing her child could have been protected had society treated pedophilia as the mental disorder it is???

She wrote back that people do take pedophilia seriously.  No one wants to see children hurt by adults in any manner.  There were ways to control those desires, she said.

I agree.  There ARE ways of controlling those desires, but ya know what's a great deterrent?  Knowing that everyone is keeping an eye on you.

And the only way that folks really learn you're a pedophile is when you get caught... which means that you've already abused someone in the past in some way.  So guess what?  Punishment is that you get marked going forward as someone likely to harm a child.  Ya know why?  Because studies have shown that much like homosexuality, pedophilia isn't something that can be "cured."  It's simply a disorder of the brain.  It is a lifelong cross for those who bear it. 

Does that make pedophilias horrible, awful people?  No.  Not at all.  Much like the rest of us, they've got a particular cross to bear, and this is it.  It's a terrible one.  But considering how much danger they pose to children - the most innocent among us - this cross NEEDS to be public.  It NEEDS to be shared, because it is only in sharing this cross that they will be given the proper direction and support necessary to shoulder it properly.  The public NEEDS to help them, and that help will arrive in the form of policing their activities.  Not necessarily in an over-bearing "Who are you seeing today?" sort of way, but in an "We know you have an issue and we want to make sure that no temptations come your way... and if they do, you are able to handle them in the proper way because you know we're looking out for you" sort of way.

The only way for us to be able to "look out" for them is through knowing they've got an issue.  Knowing they've got a disorder is the only way we know to remove the temptation should it arise. 

Bah - I'll have to write more coherently later.  I just wanted to get that out there because I've been meaning to write about it for a while.  It's been banging around in my head since first reading it, and I can't help but feel completely unsettled that there are folks out there trying to push for this declassification. 

Anyone have experience with this?  Any words of wisdom on language to use to counter-act this line of thinking? 

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Fender-Bender at Lunch

8/29/2012

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So I was involved in a slight fender-bender at lunch today.  I'm okay, and my car is mostly okay. 

However, the entire situation is both entertaining and, in my mind, miraculous.

Let's begin with the hilarious. 

I had just left my lawyer's office having finally signed the settlement papers regarding the car accident that left me with a herniated disc four years ago.  I was feeling pretty good.  Four years of torturous litigation finally over!  I never have to look at another lawyer again!!!

I think I enjoyed that euphoria for all of five minutes. 

As I was driving through lunch-rush traffic in Center Philadelphia, I watch as a man begins to swerve into my lane, completely oblivious to the fact that my car is in his way.  In order to avoid being hit, I swerve away from him towards the parking lane. 

The angels must've taken over the wheel (or the tires, or something!) because I somehow managed to miss the jaywalkers milling about the lunch trucks, the construction workers directing traffic, and the pedestrians on the sidewalk.  I also didn't hit ANY OTHER CARS (moving or otherwise!).  Can you believe that???

I did, however, scrape my passenger side up against the cement median that was protecting an area of construction.  And thank God that barrier was there.  I might've jumped the curb and hit someone on their way to lunch!  Heaven forbid!!!

Anyway, here comes the entertaining part.

As I shakily got out to inspect the damage, every lawyer in the universe swooped down on my car and began throwing business cards into it.  The first question out of one guy's mouth was "Do you know what kind of insurance you have?"

WHAT?!  Are you KIDDING ME?

Yes, sir, I'm great.  Thanks for asking!!!

*shakes head*

It was like a cartoon.  Vulture hour!  I'd heard of ambulance chasers in the past, but seriously?  Wow.  C'mon now.  Decency, people.  Where is your humanity?

Anyway, a cop must've been behind us, because he had already taken off after the guy who swerved into me.  He caught him a couple blocks up, because I saw he had pulled someone over.  I'm hoping it was that guy. 

I waited around for the other cop to come and take my statement.  I passed along all my info and he told me where I could call to get a copy of his report.  He was going to hook up with the other officer and then let me know when I could get everything to pass along to insurance (since the other guy will luckily be easily proven at-fault for the damage). 

But wow... ha ha.  Can you imagine that???  I shredded the business cards.  I just got done with 4 years of this nonsense.  I'm certainly not beginning it again on the same day the last chapter closed.  No thank you!




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Luca

8/28/2012

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I just got back from picking up lunch on my break.  While I was waiting in line, a father came over to the condiment counter for napkins in order to wipe his son's face.  The little boy was about Vincent's age.  I smiled at him, and he smiled back with this huge, "the world is amazing" grin.  I laughed to myself and gave his father an appreciative nod - he's raising a beautiful little boy.

The little boy's older brother came over and "nuggied" his head.  The younger brother giggled as the older tousled his hair, then they both ran off to play.  Their father called after them, "Vince, make sure you look after Luca."

And even remembering him calling that out makes me choke up.

I understand why I immediately felt like a ton of bricks smashed against my chest, but it still catches me off-guard.

Those little moments when I become so overcome with jealousy and grief that I don't think I can resume breathing... they give no warning.  They spring upon me with no sympathy for where I am or who might see my heart break.

Luca.  It wasn't even Vince's name as the older brother that knifed me to my core.  It was Luca's... the little one who is about Vince's age.  As soon as I heard his name, my heart first melted.  What a beautiful name, I thought.  I'd love to have a little Luca. 

That tender appreciation for such a simple, eloquent name quickly turned into intense longing and grief.  Yes, I admit there was jealousy there.  But it isn't as if I wanted to snatch the child away from his father and run home.  It wasn't as if I was envious to the point of wishing he were mine instead of belonging to that family.  I was just a little jealous that they got to have a Luca and I did not. 

Then I tried to console myself with the fact that my next little one wouldn't have been a Luca anyway.  If we were to have another boy, he'd've been a Nathan.  But Luca... something about that little boy's name was like a fire-brand to my heart.  It just made me long for a newborn and painfully aware of my inability to have one. 

And then came all the familiar self-assaults:  You're cheating Vincent out of siblings.  You're disappointing your parents (in-laws, too) because they deserve to have the grandkids they, too, long for.  You're with-holding playmates from Arianna and Alliya.  You're cheating yourself out of the fullness of your motherhood.  You're... you're... you're!!!

So for those of you who ask me how I do it... or say I'm a saint for dealing with John, I assure you... I'm no saint.  This is a daily struggle that sometimes becomes almost impossible.  It attacks when you least expect it, and it's a daunting challenge to contain the interior emotions that threaten to suffocate you.  My only advice to those of you (men and women alike) who are struggling with this cross - immediately call out to Our Lady.  Offer it and just accept those sudden moments of unbearable emotional lashing as atonement for someone on the brink of mortal sin. 

That thought gives me solace.

Maybe, just maybe, God allows us those tiny moments of sacrifice for someone half-way around the globe in need of spiritual assistance.  I imagine that's what Christ clung to as He stumbled under the weight of the Cross along Calvary. 

Hang on... call out for assistance.  Those are the moments in which we are closest to Him.  As such, hand over those moments immediately for whatever uses He needs them for.  In return, He will promptly give you the graces necessary to prop yourself back up again.

You might not feel it right away... but in time, peace will settle back into your heart.

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Of the Masterpiece of the Blessed Mother

8/26/2012

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Just suppose that you could have pre-existed your own mother, in much the same way that an artist pre-exists his painting. Furthermore, suppose that you had an infinite power to make your mother anything that you pleased, just as a great artist like Raphael has the power of realizing his artistic ideals. Suppose you had this double power, what kind of mother would you have made for yourself?

Would you have made her of such a type that would make you blush because of her un-womanly and un-motherlike actions? Would you have in any way stained and soiled her with the selfishness that would make her unattractive not only to you, but to your fellow-man? Would you have made her exteriorly and interiorly of such a character as to make you ashamed of her, or would you have made her, so far as human beauty goes, the most beautiful woman in the world; and so far as beauty of the soul goes, one who would radiate every virtue, every manner of kindness and charity and loveliness; one who by the purity of her life and her mind and her heart would be an inspiration not only to you, but even to your fellow-men, so that all would look up to her as the very incarnation of what is best in motherhood?

Now if you who are an imperfect being and who have not the most delicate conception of all that is fine in life would have wished for the loveliest of mothers, do you think that our Blessed Lord, who not only pre-existed His own mother but who had an infinite power to make her just what He chose, would in virtue of all the infinite delicacy of His spirit make her any less pure and loving and beautiful than you would have made your own mother? If you who hate selfishness would have made her selfless and you who hate ugliness would have made her beautiful, do you not think that the Son of God, who hates sin, would have made His own mother sinless and He who hates moral ugliness would have made her immaculately beautiful?


Today's blog entry today brought to you by the Venerable Archbishop Fulton Sheen.  :)

Enjoy some more of his love for Christ's Church:

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First Family Phillies Game

8/25/2012

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I went to my first baseball game in (*thinks about it*) about eight years.  I hate sports.  I really do.  I find them to be incredibly boring, and I'm honestly very wary of Philadelphia sports events considering the not-so-nice experiences I've had with them.  I tend to steer clear of any and all sports-related activities if I can help it.

Why, then, did I marry a sports-junkie???

I try to consider it part of my purgatory on earth.  Ha!

In all seriousness, though, I had a good time.  Upon getting to the park, we headed straight for the kid-zone they've got, and Vince delighted in running around through the obstacles and going up and down slides.  I was pretty amazed by how clean everything was.  There was also plenty of staff on-hand to supervise the children should one of them attempt sneaking away from the corralled area without an adult.  Very nice!

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While Vince and I were enjoying the "Phun Zone" John hurried off to purchase Phillies attire for me so I didn't stick out like a sore thumb.  I can't believe he paid $28 for a flippin' T-shirt.  $28?  C'mon, now.  But pay it he did.  I think he's looking at it as an investment.  $28 now and he doesn't ever have to be embarrassed by his non-Phillies-fan wife any other time we go to games together.  I'll happily wear it to games, because I decided that if they're all this nice, I wouldn't mind going back as a family.

It was very sweet of him, even though I have to admit being surprised he was that sure I'd enjoy myself enough to think of coming back.  Ha ha.  He's got patience to spare, that one.

After we finished running Vincent out, we decided to get some food and then head for our seats.  Walking through the stadium is like walking down the boardwalk in Ocean City.  There are so many various vendors and everything smells so good.  All you want to do is take a little bit of everything.  Unlike OC, however, everything is jacked up in price about a bazillion times.  I wasn't so happy about that.  We ended up getting two hot dogs and fries. 

Upon finding our seats, Vincent was happy to dig into his fries.  He happily sat through the beginning announcements and was delighted by the lights and videos that would come up on the screen
.  He stood up for the National Anthem and clapped for everyone in turn.  I think he really enjoyed seeing everyone come out and liked applauding with the crowd.  You could see he felt like he was a part of something.  It was so sweet!
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And of course John had to get him some cotton candy.  :) 

Vincent thoroughly enjoyed his bag of blue and pink sugar, though Mommy snuck it into her purse when he was about half-way through.  Shhhh!

He ended up patiently sitting in his seat (or on one of our laps) for the duration of 4 innings.  Since it was already pretty late, we figured we wouldn't push our luck and gathered him up to go.

On the way out, we met up with my good friend and his wife.  We swapped out tickets since we weren't staying anyway, and even got a picture to prove that I was at the game!  As always, it was great to see them, but it was a shame we couldn't hang out for longer.  I miss them!
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All in all, it was a really fun night.  I was pleasantly surprised by how smoothly everything went.  For the most part, everyone was very nice.  I'm looking forward to creating a scrapbook of this and future games for Vincent to look back on with his own kids someday.
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Potty Training Update

8/24/2012

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As you can probably tell from the photo, I was a little overzealous in purchasing the potty for Vince at Christmas when he was only 15 months old.

Now that he's almost three, I'm glad I didn't wait.  He got to mess with his potty for almost two whole years before I began to potty train him.  He spent those two years getting to know his potty... playing with his potty... and using his potty as a ramp, step-stool and yes, even a seat. 

Once I started to coax him into using it for its actual purpose, he wasn't really scared of it.  From all the horror stories I've heard of parents trying to prove to their toddlers that monsters don't exist in their potties, or that the seat wouldn't swallow their bottoms, etc, I'm just really, really glad that Vince had a good, happy relationship with his special seat.  No fear of the unknown for him, thank goodness!

However, trying to get him to figure out just what that "Uh oh, I gotta go!" sensation actually meant was an entirely different ballgame.  As some of you may recall from my 1st foray into Potty Training, I was less than successful.  In fact, I was pretty miserable and felt like an all-star failure.

I'd even accepted failure.  Almost.

Instead, I didn't give up.  John and I just altered our approach.  Sure, Vince still had a few accidents over the last two weeks, but ya know what?  He's only had a handful!  That first weekend of hell really made him incredibly self-aware.  Sure it took several hours of me scrubbing my carpets and floors.  Sure it took several extra loads of laundry and a couple extra trips to shower, but in the end, I can see what it was all for.

I haven't bought any diapers this month!

Vincent requests to go to the potty now - frequently. 

He's in big-boy underwear all day.  He hasn't had an accident in three days.  THREE DAYS! 

And last night?  Last night he woke up from his sleep just so he could ask to use the potty.

I think I've died and gone to Heaven.

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My little boy... I'm so proud of him. 

Several of my friends asked if we did a reward system to see results so fast.  We haven't.  We've just been very diligent about asking him - over and over again - if he needs to use the potty.  Every time he does use the potty, we praise him like you wouldn't believe.  In fact, I think we over-praise him.

Twice Vincent stopped playing while we were in Chick-Fil-A's playroom on Wednesday so he could run to the potty.  He only went once, but he expected a huge round of applause both times. 

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Ah well - I'm just so proud of the progress he's making.  So moral of the story - Don'T Give Up!

No child goes to high school in diapers.  :)


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My 1st Quick-Takes... I Think?

8/24/2012

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So I've seen a lot of my blogger friends take part in Conversion Diary's Quick Take Fridays.  I've also been an avid follower of Jennifer Fulwiler's for a while.  I'd considered taking part in the past, but my life is honestly not interesting enough to do a weekly "catch-all."  Maybe a quarterly one.

Anyway, today I lucked upon some great articles that totaled seven in number.  I thought Hey now!  That's just enough to make an actual Quick Take Friday post!  Then I wondered, Is it cheating to use articles for my quick takes as opposed to using items about my actual life?

The answer I arrived at was "Yes.  Yes, it's cheating, but who cares?  Doubtful anyone's gonna come after me with some sort of blogging demerits."

So, my 7 Quick Takes:

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From Esquire Magazine comes an open letter to the world from a Christian who aims to correct the negative perceptions of an anti-Christian world.  My favorite quote:

"... at one point God even speaks to a guy named Balaam through his donkey. Some say God spoke to Balaam through his ass and has been speaking through asses ever since. So if God should choose to use us, then we should be grateful but not think too highly of ourselves. And if upon meeting someone we think God could never use, we should think again."


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NBC reports that some yahoo decided to drop raw bacon in the field where Muslims were celebrating the close of Ramadan.  This person (people?) also left a note and police are investigating it as a hate crime. 

I'm all for investigating this as a hate crime because it's obvious this person (or these people)  was attempting to bully others on the grounds of their religion, but I find it interesting that this had no effect on their celebrations and this wasn't even done on sacred grounds / with sacred objects.  It's rightly being investigated as a hate crime, but folks are still indignant that the Russian women - who desecrated the main altar of a Cathedral - were convicted of religious intolerance.  Color me incredulous.



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A high school valedictorian has been denied her diploma by her school because of the use of "Hell" in her speech.  They haven't denied her transcripts (which she needs for college), but the diploma is symbolic of her achievements. 

I think the approach is heavy-handed, but I do believe she owes the school the written apology it asked for in punishment for her misstep.  Her reaction and continued "I'm right, I'm right, I'm right" when she is CLEARLY in the wrong only serves to show how arrogant she is.  She provided them with an approved speech, then she decided to throw unnecessary vulgarity in there.  As punishment, they with-held the diploma and simply asked for an apology. 

I'm sorta bothered by everyone coming to her defense in saying this is an attack of freedom of speech.  It's a SCHOOL SPEECH that everyone knows must be approved first by the board (or whoever is in charge of the ceremony).  It's to both protect the school and the student from embarrassment.  This girl simply thought she was above the rules because of her intelligence and achievements. 


Sorry, honey, but you've still gotta play by the rules.  This has nothing to do with freedom of speech.  It has everything to do with following procedure during a solemn ceremony.  Get over yourself.  If this is how you respond to situations that call you out for trying to place yourself above authority, you're in for a rude awakening when you make it to the real world.


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Fr. Levi over at The Way Out There came across the last words of St. David Lewis, a martyred priest whose story is incredibly touching. 

After reading both his life overview and then his final address, I couldn't help but thank God for granting us so brave and faithful witnesses to His Love.  Bless our priests. 


God certainly knows how to choose them!


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This is for all my fellow educators out there.  In a special way, it's for those who are part of the unique group of people who work with children who have speech delays (my son being one of those children!). 

I have no words to properly express the appreciation I have for your dedication and your love.  Michelle at Liturgical Time does a fabulous job of expressing so well just how much we love the children we're blessed to work with, and I think being an educator myself, knowing that love on a personal level and seeing it doled out to my son just makes me that much more appreciative and awe-struck.  Those who work with children are special, special people.


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By Erika V of CS!
This is almost another cheat, but CatholicSistas has absolutely been on a roll this week.  It's like someone swapped their coffee for Red Bull and they've been hammering out gold on a daily basis.  Two of their articles REALLY touched me this week and I wanted to highlight them for you.

The first is Infant Death and Scared Parenting.  A perinatal loss nurse is interviewed and she gives an inside look into this oft-overlooked area of holistic medicine.  Incredibly inspiring and moving.

The second is titled The Trauma and Pain of Abortion After Rape and is written by a woman who conceived through rape.  Exceedingly well-written, honest and poignant. 



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Finally, and maybe this isn't an article so much as a Book Release, but a mystic I've been following for a while, Maria Divine Mercy, has finally had the messages bundled into a book.

However, you don't need to purchase the book to read the messages.  You can simply go to the website dedicated to collecting them all and download the PDF. 

Again, typical warning goes into effect with mystics.  Ask the Holy Spirit for guidance as these are all considered personal revelations.  Also, try to forgive the horrific formatting of the website.  It's set up very much like a yellow-journalism rag and whoever is in charge of it is definitely trying to capitalize off fear and panic.  I don't approve of that.  Ignore the terrible formatting and focus on the messages and the Crusade Prayers.  I promise you'll thank me later for it.

For more Quick Takes, check out Conversion Diary (who hosts this entertaining weekly blogroll!
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Letter to God and to a Martyred Iraqi Priest

8/23/2012

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Written by a Muslim professor who was friends with this saintly priest, a call for victory comes... but not through violence or retaliation.  Instead, this wise man understands that victory comes through prayer... through the unflinching dedication to truth and love.

Bless not only this man and this priest, but all those in Iraq - Christian or otherwise - who cling fast to this hope.

Read the brief letter here, and remember to pray for our Suffering Church in Need.
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Prayer Requests

8/22/2012

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So many prayer requests have been pouring in recently.  Please keep these folks in your prayers.

A young mother went into pre-term labor, delivering her little girl at 16 weeks.  This little soul was able to briefly feel the love of her parents before entering the gates of Heaven.  Her family could use spiritual support.

Another mother lost her little boy a few hours after birth due to a rare genetic mutation.  Again, God blessed his parents with the opportunity to meet this little saint before he entered Heaven as their personal intercessor, but the wounds left behind will take God's Divine Mercy to heal.

A friend is struggling with his belief in Catholicism.  Bright and active within his community, he's fallen prey to pride and has begun actively opposing the very theology that he has vowed to uphold.  His errors are poised to spread to others, so please... keep this man and those he is responsible for in your prayers.


A wonderful priest is feeling isolated.  He is witnessing the tragic desecration of his beloved faith and can do little to stop it.  Oh, how this betrayal strikes at his heart!  Please keep him and all priests in your prayers.


Someone very close to me is struggling with a deep depression.  I've run out of options regarding things I can do to help pull him out of this rut.  At this juncture, prayer is about the only recourse I have.

Finally, and selfishly, myself.  I've been struggling interiorly with a personal matter that is simply mine to shoulder.  Again, it's sometimes a terrible cross to bear, but I accept it for what it is.  At the present, I'm stumbling around more than usual and would appreciate a spare Memorare if you've got one.


As always, I'll continue praying for those intercessions you've e-mailed in.  I'm contemplating opening a page specifically dedicated to these intercessions.  Forming a sort of on-line community in which we can support one-another may very well be beneficial.  In the meantime, know that my prayers are with all of you, and know that you have my appreciation for any words you shoot up in favor of the above intentions.  Bless you always.


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How Do You Know You Have a Soul?

8/21/2012

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"How do you know you have a soul?"

"How do you not know?  Where do you think your unshed tears collect?  Where do you think the anguished cries of your inner-most miseries echo?  Where do you think the incomprehensible ocean of love for your family and friends deepens? 

It is not your heart.  Your heart is a physical thing that pumps blood throughout your mortal body.  Your soul, however, is the respite for the unseen emotions that animate that heart. 

So yes, I know I have a soul.  Just like I'm able to feel the physical world with my body, I'm able to feel the emotional and spiritual ones with my soul.  And in the end, isn't that the truth of feeling?
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The Riot Women

8/19/2012

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Vince's face says it all.
I'm going to try really hard to remain civil.  I apologize in advance if If am less than perfect in my attempt.

Some of you may have been following the deplorable media frenzy over a certain Russian 'band' that decided to stage a blasphemous protest inside the Cathedral of Christ the Saviour.  For those of you that haven't, do yourselves a favor and simply skip this particular entry so you can remain blissfully unaware that such disregard for common decency exists in the world.

A couple months ago, members of this feminist group trespassed on sacred Cathedral grounds and brassly went up to the main sanctuary to the soleas (the platform in front of the gates that enclose the altar) and shrieked out an incredibly offensive string of lines aimed at denigrating Christians under the guise of opposing Putin.

Judging from the lyrics (and really... don't search them out unless you really want to upset yourself), they were mostly looking to humiliate Christians and drag our beliefs through the mud.  To do this in front of the main altar where Christ is present... oh Heaven!  Forgive us this travesty. 

When these yahoos were finally brought before a judge, they were found guilty of hooliganism and sentenced to two years in prison.

Of course everyone and their brother cried foul over this.  The media kicked into high gear blasting the government for stifling freedom of speech.  Instead of being viewed as a hate crime aimed at humiliating Christians, folks painted the picture of innocent women who just wanted to speak out against the injustice of Russian big-wigs. 

How anyone could possibly write this off as simply the government trying to stifle free speech is beyond me - especially given that these same women have landed themselves in prison before.  The ONLY reason they've attracted so much attention this time around is because of where they staged their antics. 

They chose the central Cathedral of Moscow because it'd garner the most publicity.  And instead of just staging this in front of the cathedral (where I doubt I'd've had an issue with it), they chose to go INSIDE the church and dare to go up to the sanctuary. 

I won't even go near the sanctuary, and I'm a practicing Catholic!

Sheesh!

And yet everyone who I've spoke to about this defends these women because the media is portraying this as an issue of free speech.  Instead, the media completely neglects the incredibly horrible injustice done to the Christians of that community.  Because most folks don't care about the beliefs of these people, they don't CARE that this injustice has been done.

*Shakes head*  That really worries me.

An incredible article that details just how distrurbing this is was written by Janice Shaw Crouse of The American Thinker. 

In attempting to explain this to atheist / agnostic / disagreeing friends, I likened it to a stunt orchestrated by a Christian in the middle of a homosexual support group.  Let's say Bob wants to protest President Obama because he believes President Obama is in bed with the homosexual lobby.  Instead of protesting someplace normal and open to the public, he decides to break into a homosexual support group meeting (or support community home) and yell anti-homosexual things. 

Should Bob be arrested?  YES!  For goodness sakes, he trespassed with the willful intent to denegrate homosexuals!  He'd be immediately labeled a homophobe, would probably be arrested and charged with a hate crime, and face an extremely publicized trial that would laugh at his attempt to use "freedom of speech" as a defense for his actions.

This is because most folks are in agreement with the homosexual lobby.  Most folks would rightly be offended that anyone would THINK to enter such a safe, sacred spot and begin bullying homosexuals in so offensive a manner - even under the guise of raging against the President.

Why, then, is this same outrage not shown to the Christians who are now left with months of restitution to serve in atonement for the treachery committed against their community by these women?

Ah yes - because it's perfectly acceptable to bully Christians.  It's perfectly acceptable - respected, even - to humiliate and denigrate Christianity. 

Again - this should be HIGHLY alarming to folks.  It certainly is to me.


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Who is Fr. Trad? His Identity (and Church) Revealed!

8/17/2012

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Long time readers of this blog are familiar with Fr. Trad (short for Traditional).  You may remember him from such entertaining posts as "An Impromptu Confession Sans-Stole" and my very first memory of him (and his parish) in "New Church."

Well, you are in for a real treat today!!!  Not only am I going to reveal Fr. Trad's identity, I'm going to give you a sneak peek into his beautiful church and tell you how you can experience Fr. Trad in the comfort of your own home!

As is typical for Holy Days of Obligation, I attended this parish for their evening mass (my parish doesn't offer evening mass unless it's a vigil).  This is also the parish with the beautiful Adoration Chapel that I usually attend.


Anyway, as soon as I stepped foot through the doors, I was overcome with awe.  Everything - and I mean EVERYTHING - was meticulous.  Flowers were everywhere, banners for Our Lady were hung high, her gorgeous statue was bathed in candlelight, and Father was already busy censing the church.


I know I've said this about a bazillion times, but I LOVE THIS PRIEST!  He's traditional and he's super Marian.  He spares no expense attending to Our Lady, and it shows in everything he does.  It shows in everything that the parishioners do as a result. 

There's an anonymous saying that this blessed priest reminds me of.  It goes:

If the priest is a saint, his people will be holy.  If the priest is holy, his people will be good.  If the priest is good, his people will be fair.  If the priest is fair, his people will be mediocre.  If the priest is mediocre, his people will be bad.


Priests are meant to be a step above us in their example of holiness.  They're meant to draw us closer to God by, in fact, being closer to God through purity of heart.  This man exemplifies this for me, and it shows in how reverent his flock acts during Mass. 

I'm always struck by how in-sync the lectors / ministers are... how attentive the altar servers are... how unassuming even the choir is (though their music is phenomenal).  Considering how many parishes I've been to that have lectors brassly refusing to reverence the Blessed Sacrament, that have Extraordinary Ministers acting like the Communion line is some sort of popularity test, etc, I fully appreciate a cohesive parishioner base that understands the Mass is a prayer meant to worship God... not a place to showcase their presumed skill-set.


Anyway, I decided after Mass that I needed to come back and finally snap some photos of this church to share with you.  One day I might do the same for my current home parish, but for issues of privacy I'd rather not at this point.


The reason I'm brazenly posting all of this knowing it will "out" Fr. Trad's identity is because I just learned that he is on YouTube!  All of his homilies are there, so I emphatically suggest you check out his page!  His real name is Fr. Carmel, and though he uses a cane to get around, he is a true warrior for Christ.  I imagine he might try to politely shove St. Michael out of the way when he gets to Heaven so he could serve as Our Lady's personal bodyguard.  Ha ha!

I wanted to give you this fuller appreciation for Fr. Carmel before I showcase his beautiful church.  Why?  Because a beautiful church is just a building.  The REAL Church is made up of the priests and parishioners that work to make that building beautiful and holy.  So with that in mind, enjoy the slideshow.  Keep this priest in your prayers.  Keep all priests in your prayers.  May they all strive to live their vows faithfully, and may they all rely on the intercession of Our Lady in so gracious and attentive a manner.  Bless them.


Art from the Church Proper


Art from Outside and in the Rectory


The Adoration Chapel

A very special thank you to Janet, the parish secretary, who kindly took me on this mini-excursion yesterday.  Bless her a thousand-fold for such generosity.

Another very special thank you to Fr. Carmel, himself, for revitalizing this parish.  He has very obviously put his entire heart and soul into this place!  Bless him!

Finally, a very special thank you to all the parishioners of this beautiful, holy place.  I've always felt very welcome here, and due to their deligence in following Fr. Carmel's example, the services have always pulled me closer to Christ.  Bless them!
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John and I

8/16/2012

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I've gotten a lot of questions about the history regarding John and myself.  For those of you who are curious, here it is!  An entire page dedicated to the history between John and I.

Click Here to Enjoy!


It's also now a page under the "About Me" tab (in addition to my reversion story).
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Happy Assumption (with Art!)

8/15/2012

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Jacques Stella's "Jesus Christ Receiving the Virgin in Heaven"
I know I wrote on this last year, but the visions of Maria Valtorta are what I always think of while reflecting on the Assumption of Our Lady.    I always imagine her to be so incredibly enthused... so incomprehensibly overjoyed to throw her arms around Our Lord and grasp Him to herself. 
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And this statue... I have no idea where it is, but if someone knows, please tell me!  I love how the statue is set up under a golden dome as if Heaven is opening to allow her now glorious body entry.  Wow.  Love it!
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I've included this icon of Our Lady's Dormition (her "sleep") because a friend of mine wanted to use it for her Assumption Blog.  However, she was confused by Jesus because He's holding what appears to be a mummy child.

For anyone else who has seen this image (or others like it) today, it's not a mummy-child.  Ha ha.  The tiny figure is symbolic of Our Lady's soul.  She is depicted as wrapped in white - the symbol of purity and holiness.  She is depicted child-like because of her child-like trust, faith and love.  Finally, she is depicted in the arms of her Son, close to His Heart - no doubt exactly where she was upon leaving her body for Heaven before the Assumption.

So no worries in enjoying these icons!  They're not blasphemous or scandalous in any way.  They just depict the Blessed Mother twice.  Once corporally as her mortal body reclines in "dormition" and once spiritually as the childlike and holy soul she was destined from all eternity to be.
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Finally, I just really like this one.  She's again dressed in white (and gold stars!) and is seen sitting on the lap of Jesus.  This is indicative of her childlike faith.  I love how comforting this image is.  I wonder what the scrolls say.  Anyone have any idea?
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Itty & Bitty - Emergency Plea

8/14/2012

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They're snugglers!
Meet Itty and Bitty, an adorable pair of furbabies who need to find a new home ASAP.  Their momma was an unfortunate victim of the economy and got laid off.  Luckily, she was blessed with a new job, but that new job takes her over an hour away and forces her into a situation in which she must choose between working or keeping the kitties.

Her new living arrangements will not allow for animals of any sort.  Try not to judge her for being unable to find a place that accepts cats.  Her new arrangements could very well include working on an ocean liner for 6 - 8 months at a time!

Anyway, she's unable to take them with her, but she's doing everything she can to ensure they find a good, loving home together.  I was tasked with helping her reach those ends.  Help me help these beautiful babies find a forever home.

Some background info on these little ones (from Momma):

Bitty: She loves to cuddle.  She is my lap cat.  She loves laying in the sun, playing with her toys, and cuddling with her sister.  She waits at the door for when I come home.  She loves to purr.  Shewill make you laugh when she runs and does her tricks.  She's very friendly with people and not shy.  

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:   She is a little sweetheart.  She loves to watch people and will also wait for you at the door.  She is more laid back and will lounge all day.  She loves to cuddle with Bitty.  She arches her back and people think she is going to attack them but it's her way of saying she wants to be pet.  She would never hurt a fly! She loves water for some reason.  She's got the most precious face and will rub up against you to show affection.  She loves to get kisses and if you make a clicking noise she will roll over on her back and want you to scratch her belly.

They are both fixed and up-to-date on their shots.  They are not declawed (because Momma understands how horrible that practice is - so potential adopters much be aware of this as I don't adopt out to folks who declaw).

They do come free with the following items:

Favorite toys
A special litter box
A carrier (they both go in the same one)
Food
Their favorite blanket
Their bed
A copy of their vet records


If you have any questions / comments, feel free to contact me.  In the meantime, please share this via e-mail or the Twitter / FB buttons below.  Getting this out to as many people as possible is the best way to find the family that's been hoping for a pair like this!

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Another Educational Homily - Fasting

8/14/2012

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Fr. Eucharist gave another stellar homily this past weekend.  He reiterated some points regarding the True Presence, but I learned something new this time!

Ya know that 1 hour fast we're supposed to participate in before we receive?  I always thought it was to clear our bodies of frivolous food so we could better accept the True Food of the Eucharist. 

Fr. Eucharist's explanation was WAY more enlightening.

He gave us a brief history of the Eucharistic fast.  I was already aware that there was a time in which you couldn't have even a drop of water past midnight in order to adequately prepare yourself to receive Christ.  Then it was lessened to three hours, and now we're sitting at one.  What I DIDN'T know, however, was that the fast was actually meant to make the faithful hungry.

Mother Church WANTS us to go to Mass hungry.  She wants us to feel a physical emptiness... a physical hunger for sustenance. 

Why, Father Eucharist? 


To remind us that we should be hungering for Christ, of course!

Being humans, we sometimes need something physical with which to remind ourselves of the spiritual.  A fast does this in several key ways.

First, we gain that physical hunger which should remind us to always hunger after Christ.  Next, it should remind us of our brothers and sisters who daily face physical hunger on account of poverty, neglect or famine.  After all, we are all connected, and sharing in the physical manifestation of hunger is a way to develop empathy (and through that empathy, activism) for our spiritual family (meaning all humans since we are all children of God). 
Finally, this fast does serve to clear our bodies (and hopefully, our minds) of the frivolous junk we tend to ingest on a daily basis.  Much like we would do a quick clean of the house before a friend arrived, we use the time of fasting to clear ourselves of unnecessary "junk" to make room for God.

I really appreciated that insight as it's something I never really thought much about.

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Potty Training - Blah

8/13/2012

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When did my little baby boy go from this
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to THIS?
So I made the decision to attempt potty training Vince this weekend.  Up until this point, John and I haven't been very consistent with it.  If we remembered to try him on the potty after his bath - woo hoo.  If not, c'est la vie.

However, my laissez faire approach quickly choked on its bon-bon lovin' neglect after I read a note from his teachers reminding us that Vincent was developmentally ready for preschool.  The only thing standing between Vincent and a more structured, educational setting was his diaper.

Crackers.

I immediately felt panicked, proud and frantic reading that letter.  I'm so proud that my baby boy is ready for preschool.  At the same time, I'm panicky over the fact that my baby boy isn't so much baby as boy now and is thus ready for the next stage of his educational development.  That brings tears to my eyes for more than one reason.

Finally, I'm a little frantic because I realize I need to get on the ball with training him.  He'll be 3 in September, and if he's to start preschool Sept. 1st, I've got my work cut out for me.

So instead of going down the shore this weekend (as was originally the plan), I spent the entire weekend home with him in anticipation of the many accidents that were waiting to happen. 

Ugh - I wasn't disappointed!!!

I can't even tell you how many times this poor kid used my floors as a potty.  Le sigh.  On the plus side, leaving him run around naked (or in his big boy underwear) certainly made him a lot more aware of the "I gotta go!" sensation that precedes using the bathroom.  He even surprised me by using the potty three times - once going number two!  I really thought we were making headway. 

Not so much.

And after a particularly messy melt-down (on the part of Mommy, not Vince), John calmly suggested that maybe I was trying to push Vince before he was ready.  I knew he was right.  It made logical sense to me.  I think I knew even before I started that he wasn't ready.  Trying to push it on him will only freak him out and make potty training that much more difficult. 

So I deferred to Daddy on this one.  Vince gets a potty training reprieve for now.  We'll be more consistent with reminding Vince about the potty and asking him if he needs to go, but for now, we'll let him have his diapers... even if that means he waits a month or two to start preschool. 
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My New Job

8/11/2012

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Who has two thumbs and a position working for the Archdiocese of Philadelphia?
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THIS GIRL!
Okay, so I don't exactly have my thumbs pointing at myself in this one, but I look pretty awesome with those aviators (which is exactly how I feel on account of the fact that I get to work for the Archdiocese!!!).
GAH!!!  THE ARCHDIOCESE OF PHILADELPHIA!!! 
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I'm so excited!  To work in the service of the Archdiocese that opened the gates of the Faith to me... wow.  I just can't even express how gratified I am to be given this opportunity.  Given the fact that the Archdiocese is hurting right now, I am ESPECIALLY happy to be able to toss my services their way. 

I will be taking a significant pay-cut, but the way I look at it, I'm gaining so much in place of it.  I'll be working right next to the Basilica, I'd likely be able to stop in during lunch breaks to say "Hi" to Jesus, I'll be working with other Catholics (culture shock!), and I might even get to ride the elevator with Archbishop Chaput.  Pardon me while I squeal again in girlish delight...

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Instead of screaming "SANTA," though, I'd be screaming "HIS GRACE!!!"
Wow, though.  I almost can't believe how this practically fell in my lap.  What a gift!

A friend of mine works for the Archdiocese and let me know a position was available.  Within 20 minutes of sending my resume, I had an interview scheduled.  The interview, itself, was fun (I'm a nerd that way), and less than a week later I got the offer. 

Attempting to convince my atheist husband that taking a pay-cut to go work for the Archdiocese of Philadelphia was entertaining, but God was good and removed even that obstacle from my path.  John is supportive of this move, I think, because he sees how incredibly exuberant I am.  He definitely cringed a bit at first, but after explaining to him what I'd be doing (and seeing how happy just explaining it made me), he agreed it'd be a good move.

So once I made sure all was well with me leaving my current position for the Archdiocesan one, I formally accepted their offer.  I begin in September.  Deo gratias!

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Some Randoms

8/10/2012

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This made me impossibly happy.  Bless the mercy of the Lord, and bless the willingness of this man to open his heart to him.  :)

This made me incredibly sad - specifically the bit about Father attempting to take a nice stroll with his family only to be immediately accused of having a secret illegitimate family.  God bless him for forgiving so quickly.  I don't think I'd've been anywhere near as charitable.


Super excited about this!  Catholic Sistas is doing a give-away contest with all sortsa goodies.  Go there and enter now!  And if you win the wine, I expect a glass.  ;)

This made me a variety of things.  I was proud to call this guy a Christian.  His example of forgiveness is something I could stand to learn something from.  However, I also felt a twinge of anxiety as I realized that this sort of violence against Christians is on the rise.  And considering the new job I just landed, I can't help but wonder if in five or ten years, I'll be dealing with a similar rash of surprise attacks.

Which leads me to my next blog post...

Stay tuned for "My New Job."  It makes me as happy as this video John got of Vince when he was just 3.5 months old.  And yes... my chunker is still big for his age.  :)

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Gender Dysphoria - a Conversation

8/9/2012

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Names were changed.  This is the transcript of a conversation I had with a man who underwent gender reassignment surgery (and hormone therapy) to become a physical woman.  He is still struggling with it (even after completing it several years ago). 

I felt this conversation important to post publicly because it's a conversation we should all be ready to handle as issues of gender dysphoria seem to be more common.  People who struggle under the weight of this cross deserve love and respect.  We each have our crosses, but we must support one another to carry them with dignity.


For an easier read, just click "Fullscreen" on the tab below.  :)

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The Archangelati - an Interview

8/7/2012

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I recently came across a fascinating group of fired-up Catholics who are dedicated to educating others about the truth of Catholic doctrine. 

And when I say "fired-up" I truly mean fired-up.  In reading their messages and watching their videos, you can't help but acknowledge that these blessed folks are on fire with the love of Christ.

Intrigued, I reached out the this group in the hopes to learn more about them.  They were kind enough to allow me an interview.  I'm sharing it for your benefit.  Get to know this intrepid group!  They aim to set fire to the hearts of all they meet!



What is the Archangelati?

The Archangelati is an online coalition of faithful Catholics seeking to educate and clarify the true doctrine and beliefs of our beautiful Catholic and Apostolic Church.  Often, this is achieved by our works involving the refutation of age-old heresies and attempts to convert the hearts of all people through New Evangelical and Apologetic means.

This means that we work to not only convert non-Catholics but also to strengthen the faith and devotions of our fellow Catholic brethren.



Why the name "Archangelati" and not something like "Angels of Evangelization?"

The personal devotions of the co-founders to the seven Archangels (particularly St. Michael) was highly influential upon our decision.  We wanted to counter the anti-Catholic sentiments that many faithful Catholics are aware of.  We chose to parody the famous anti-Catholic conspiracy group called the Illuminati. 

Like the Archangels, we seek to bring the True Faith and all its messages to the common people, as well as promote respect and a true understanding of Catholicism.  It seemed natural to combine our sentiments int a single, new word with ancient roots - much like our group, we are "new" but our message of Faith is not.


Did you begin as a loose collective of YouTube friends or blogging partners?  How did the idea of an Archangelati spring forth?

Many of us were responding to the call of Christ (as well as Pope Benedict XVI) to evangelize and spread Christ's love, patience and understanding where the Holy Spirit directs us.  In these increasingly secular times, there is a deep need for a return to tradition, a return to the Church, and a return to God. 

There were many individuals seeking to fill this need independently.  After exchanging tips and working alongside these faithful Catholics, we began to develop a bond and decided to create a supportive community for online Catholics.


What was your vision for the Archangelati when you first began?  Has it changed since membership began growing?

We are always changing and growing in order to meet the needs of God's children.  For some of us, that means keeping open dialogues with obstinate Protestants, for others that means attempting to bring back lukewarm and "former" Catholics, and for some it may simply mean supporting and praying for our other members.


Can you explain something of the formation process?

We allow each member to respond to God's call and enter provided that they are actually Roman Catholic and in full communion with the Holy Mother Church.  After a few slightly comical misunderstandings, a few heretical infiltrations, and much deliberations between the co-founders, we decided that it was necessary that each new member fully understand and openly profess a true Apostolic and Catholic faith.


Something I found absolutely fascinating about your intro video is your decisive call to action.  You specifically challenge Roman Catholics to "Reclaim Catholicism."  Can you expound on this?

The media has demeaned and demonized Catholicism - everything from accusation of being a cult and having "sexy nuns" to the possibility of "Pro-choice Catholics" and unbalanced reports regarding the priest scandals.  There are so many misunderstandings about what Catholicism truly is.  We want all Catholics to live faithfully in perfect union with Scripture, Sacred Tradition and the Magisterium of the Church.  We want all Catholics to be unafraid to openly label themselves as Catholics.  We want the next generation of Catholics to inherit an environment of tolerance and to be proud of our True Church and all its teachings.


In your Wiki description, you cite your adherence to a more "traditional" approach to Catholicism, rejecting more "progressive" interpretations.  Can you tell me more about your ideas on traditional vs. progressive Catholicism?

Since our One True Church is based on Holy Scriptures, Sacred Tradition and the Magisterium, it is only in the preservation of these teachings that we can truly find communion with the Godhead.  As a group, we tend to hold that progressive Catholicism tends to take away the importance of the sacraments and the spirituality that derives from it.  In the attempt to "modernize" the faith, some have fallen into the trap of "Protestantizing" their understanding of Catholicism.  This is not true Catholicism.  You cannot be pro-choice and Catholic.  You cannot reject the Immaculate Conception or Papal Infallibility and still be Catholic.  Tradition is at the heart and core of Catholicism as even the Bible instructs us to "hold fast to Tradition."  (2Thess 2:15)


Being that you're a traditional group of younger Catholics, do you feel a calling to engage youthful Catholics through media that are more in-tune with their experiences and comfort levels?

Like the Catholic Church, our members are extremely varied and diverse.  We are nuns, we are priests, we are newly-weds, we are middle-aged and grandparents, we are high-school kids and college students.  We come from all backgrounds of life, from many different countries, but we are all united by our love of God and His One True Church.  Through the blessings of new technology, we are able to communicate with many more people throughout the world.  We try to use this to our advantage.


What has thus far been your most successful medium?  Do you ever physically meet together, or do you rely solely on cyberspace to hold information sessions with the members of your Archangelatum?

Overall, YouTube remains our most successful medium.  However, many of our members have chosen to enhance their friendships with each other through other forms such as blogs, e-mail and Facebook.  There are several members that are siblings with one another (such as two of the co-founders).  This enables even easier lines of communication to remain open.  There have been a few instances of several members meeting together and there have been proposals for larger meetings; however, the large distances between each member complicates any gathering of significant size.


For more information (or if you're itching to join!) you can learn more by following this link to their blog.  Or, you can check out their website here!  Keep them in your prayers, folks!


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Priests, Titles and Familiarity

8/7/2012

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Fr. Sweet and I after his ordination
A friend of mine from HS was talking to me about a mutual friend of ours who was blessed to be given the vocation of priesthood a few years back. 

Every now and again he'll come up in conversation, and without fail, I refer to him as "Father Sweet" (replacing "Sweet" with his actual name, mind you).

Our mutual friend, however, consistently refers to this priest by his high school nickname.

I understand that due to our high school relationships, it's assumed that we continue to utilize the same familiarity we've espoused in the past.  Fr. Sweet, I think, expects that, too, since on two separate occasions (when he and I spoke in prep for my wedding), he laughed off my attempts to call him "Deacon" (he was transitory at that point).

For this reason, I've never questioned our mutual high school friends when they've called Father Sweet by his first name / nickname.  I, however, cannot bring myself to do that.  I don't expect others to follow suit, but I was pretty surprised when our mutual friend came down kinda hard on me for "insisting on calling him 'Father' when he is the same as the rest of us except he has a collar around his neck."

Color me stupified.  My view is this:

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Jesus called Simon to become a disciple.  He spent a couple years forming him, teaching him, and revealing to him the Truths of God's plan for salvation.  Upon testing Simon with the question of "Who do YOU say that I am?" Simon was found to be inspired with the wisdom of the Holy Spirit.  This inspiration was a sign from God the Father that Simon was ready to be christened with the name of Peter... "Cephas" (which means "rock") in Greek.  Interestingly, this same word translates to "firstborn" in Aramaic. 

Thus, Peter became the first-born Christian... the first to declare Jesus' Divinity through His Sonship of the One, True God.  Already christened with the Holy Spirit (signified by his Divine knowledge), Christ took it a step further and christened Simon (meaning "reed") with the dignified name of "Peter," the rock upon which Christianity would be built.

Name changes throughout the Bible are significant.  Name changes signify not a physical alteration, but a spiritual one.  God changes a person by marking their souls with His Promise.  For Abram (who became Abraham) it was the promise of a family (not just physical, but spiritual).  For Jacob (who became Israel) it was the promise of a nation.  For Saul (who became Paul) it was the promise of salvation and a share in the kingship of Christ.

With the importance that God places on names, I sorta feel as though I, too, should pay attention when God, Himself, deems a person worthy of a name change.  Priests, in my eyes, fall into this category. 

Priests are called, just like St. Peter, to be marked by the Holy Spirit.  They are marked as representatives of Christ.  They are called to shepherd God's people back to Heaven.  As such, upon ordination, they receive the title of "Father."

That title is GOD-GIVEN.  He was blessed to be called by God to be a "Father" to His people.  Far be it from me to call Father Sweet by any other name.  It isn't just my respect for him that solicits my "formality."  It's actually my familiarity with and respect for God that solicits the "Father." 

*Sigh*

It's not just my high school priest friend that seems to get this treatment anymore.  I know of several people who think nothing of calling priests by their first name (sans title).  I admit that it's always unsettling to me, but I've never said anything one way or another about it to those who do it because I do not know their relationship with the priest in question.  Who knows?  Maybe the particular priest WISHES to be called by his first name.  I don't know, thus, I don't cast judgement.

However, I was very surprised to have judgement cast upon me.  Even after explaining my stance, this person thought I was just being "stupid." 

Eh, I'll take "stupid" over "disrespectful" any day of the week. 

A priest isn't just "us with a collar."  A priest is marked soul-deep in a way that none of us can imagine.  They are set apart from us.  They are fundamentally different.  They are endowed with the power of God, Himself.  Thus, I willingly - JOYFULLY - acknowledge that grace with the humble term "Father." 

No amount of name-calling, scorn or ridicule will change my mind.


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Even this one - dearest to me above all - gets "Father." And he's been family since before his deaconate!
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Squee-Filled Homily!

8/5/2012

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Brace yourselves for one of the nerdiest "fan-girl" type entries ever.

And yes, it's about a homily.

I'm not even sure where to begin as I'm so giddy over the brilliance and no-nonsense approach this retired priest (who is filling in for Fr. Atlas while he's away).  It was his mission to defend the Eucharist and educate parishioners on the importance we should place on the Real Presence of Christ - what a gem!  If I didn't have Vince on my lap, I would've taken a pen and paper out for notes!

Wow!!!

To begin, this weekend's readings were very much Eucharistic in nature.  The first reading dealt with the manna from Heaven that nourished the Israelites as they wandered through the desert.  The psalm was a reflection of this reading and also foreshadowed the joyful thanksgiving we ought to sing in praise of His gracious institution of the Holy Eucharist.

The second reading reminds us that the bread that nourishes us it not only physical but spiritual.  Christ, the Word, is our sustenance.  His teachings and example are the gateway to Heaven.

Finally, in the gospel, we hear Jesus, Himself, affirm that He is the Bread of Life.  This is not some spiritual manner of speaking.  He is affirming His Presence in the Holy Eucharist - the greatest of all Sacraments.  He is preparing His followers to understand and accept this unfathomable mercy. 

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Blessed Alexandrina
Upon walking out amongst the congregation, Fr. Eucharist (as I'll call him henceforth) spoke of several mystics who lived solely on the Body of Christ in the Eucharist. 

He didn't specify a particular mystic, but considering the scientific evidence he spoke of regarding the validity of these miraculous signs, my mind jumped to Blessed Alexandrina who subsisted on nothing but the Holy Eucharist for 13 years (to the astonishment of the many doctors and scientists who examined her).


Fr. Eucharist wanted to highlight that the Blessed Sacrament is not just symbol of Christ.  This Sacrament of Love is the fullness of Christ's Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity.  When we say "Amen" in response to the priest's offering, we are saying "Yes, I believe!" that the consecrated Host we receive is, in fact, God.  He has chosen to use some of His saints to hit home this point through allowing them the grace of existing solely on His Body.  As He said, "My Flesh is true food, and My Blood is true drink."  Amen, indeed.

As such, the Eucharist is to be the most important thing in our lives.  It is the banquet that supercedes all other banquets. 

Upon this reflection, Father Eucharist then went on to describe some key elements that build up our Mass towards this miraculous banquet.

The procession and readings - our Liturgy of the Word - is like a cocktail hour.  I loved that comparison!  At a wedding cocktail, for example, we gather together with joy to catch up with family and friends we haven't seen in a while.  We see how the kids are doing, we find out what so-and-so's been up to, and we bask in the filial love present amongst us all.

During the cocktail hour, we also get tiny samples of the greater meal awaiting us at the main banquet.  For us, those morsels are the various readings and responses.  As Catholics, we believe that Christ is the Word, so we are blessed to receive Him with our ears before we partake of the "main course" of the Liturgy of the Eucharist. 

And oh... the Liturgy of the Eucharist.  Pardon me as I 'squee' ridiculously for a few moments.  He really took off running as he reflected on the Liturgy of the Eucharist.


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Once again he discussed the spiritual reality of our physical presence at Mass. 

As St. John Chrysostom once said, "When Mass is being celebrated, the sanctuary is filled with countless angels who adore the divine victim
immolated on the altar."

Amen, St. John!

Fr. Eucharist reminded of this in such a reverent, direct way that I could have stood up to applaud him.  He said, "Yes!  There is truth beyond what we can see with our physical eyes.  At the words of consecration, Jesus is standing behind the priest!  God the Father and Holy Spirit are with Him.  Mary, His mother, is there with St. Joseph.  And filling the sanctuary are the angels and saints who, together with us, adore and praise Him."

How I managed to stay in my seat and not jump up to hug him is truly beyond me.  I felt as if my heart had doubled in size just so it could sprout arms and embrace him. 

Yes, Fr. Eucharist, yes!  TELL US!  TEACH US!  REMIND US THAT THE EUCHARIST IS GOD TRULY PRESENT!  Shine as an example to all other priests that THIS is the type of truth so desperately needed in the world today.  THIS is what Catholics must be reminded of so that we can properly appreciate the gift that is the Eucharist.

Did he stop there?  No no, folks.  My giddiness erupted as he went on.

Catholics, when they present themselves for the Eucharist, must make a throne with their hands with which to accept the Body of Christ.  Not with one hand.  Not with two haphazardly placed together.  Reverently accept Him as the King He is! 


*He then proceeded to show us what that would look like.*

And, bless him, he also gave a nod to acceptance on the tongue (which is how I receive anyway). 

SERIOUSLY! 

And to boot, he called out folks who leave after receiving the Eucharist.  He said, "And to those of you who leave after Communion, you're missing a lot of stuff!  From Consecration until the Recessional, the Blood of Christ covers the congregation, filling us with untold graces!"

He again didn't mention a specific mystic, but I'm about 99.9% sure he was referring to the revelations made by the Blessed Mother to Catalina Revas of Bolivia.
  I'd only recently learned of her (I would guess in the last 8 months or so), but the insights and revelations made to her by Christ and Our Lady have forever changed my participation in the Mass.  I would encourage all of you to read more about her!  But again, use the typical caution regarding private revelations.  Though not forbidden / approved by the Church, it us up to the individual to request guidance and discernment from the Holy Spirit.

Back to the wonderful priest, however, he closed his homily with a reminder that after reception of the Eucharist, we would do well to remember that God, Himself, dwells within us.  So as we walk back to our seats, it's not the time for saying "Hi" to friends, nor is it the time to get one's self ready to leave.  The time after Communion is meant for prayful reflection... a true and intimate conversation between us and God.

And don't you know after Communion, he graciously allowed us time to sit in silent contempation. 

Hmmmm... I've got a big old stupid smile on my face, and it's all because of this wonderful representative of Christ.  My prayers are with him and with all priests.  May they all have such ardent love for Him, and may they all seek to spread that love and understanding to others.  Bless him, and bless them!


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