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POLL: Merry Chrismahanukwanzakah

12/22/2011

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The poll is below for those of you here to answer that!  For the rest of you - the reason for the poll...

I'm gonna go ahead and apologize thrice for this entry.  I realize some folks might be a bit offended by the title, others by the comic to the left, and still others by the video at the end. 

Please note that my intention is not to incite ire, but to develop a point about this whole "Merry Christmas" vs. "Happy Holidays" debate.

So if you offend easily, I'd suggest refraining from the visual aids I've chosen (though you might enjoy the sweater!).

Anyway, the comic above was sent to me by my friend, Mary, this morning.  I'll freely admit to laughing at the plight of the poor guy who just wants to spread some well-wishes.  It's a situation many of us have no-doubt found ourselves in over the years. 

The last few years, I've fallen into the politically correct trap of "Happy Holidays."  It started back when I was working as a Center Director for an educational center.  With 200 some families as customers, I felt I needed to be diplomatic in my holiday greeting approach so as to side-step the toes of paying customers.  I also had a lot of Jewish / atheist friends, so saying "Merry Christmas" seemed insensitive to me. 

Mind you, I wasn't "super-Catholic" at the time.  As I've stated before, though I was away from the Church, I never lost my love of Christ, so when I stopped saying "Merry Christmas" I always felt a twinge of guilt.  I felt like I was actively pretending not to be Christian just to appease public opinion.

That being said, my pastor's homily last week made me re-examine this stance.  I briefly touched on that in this post, but I admit to pondering this for a little while now. 

This year, I've definitely made more of an effort to wish others a Merry Christmas.  However, if I know you're Jewish, I'll wish you a Happy Hanukkah.  I don't believe that's taking Christ out of Christmas so much as acknowledging the beliefs of others and wishing them goodwill in a language they will appreciate.  After all, our words can be gifts as well.

And what are well-wishes other than verbal gifts of goodwill?

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Think of it this way...

Your dear Aunt Sally creates one of her infamous winter sweaters for you.  She slaves over it lovingly for a month, picking out colors, embellishments, and patterns she "just knows" you're going to love.  Excitedly, she hands you the box which represents all those hours she thought of you, persisting against craft store lines, miscounted stitches and tangled tinsel, all so she could keep her cherished loved one warm through those chilly winter months.

You open the box and pull back the paper, revealing her most "unique" creation yet. 


Do you throw the box at her and stomp off, angry that she doesn't know your favorite color is now black, or that feathers are so last season?

Of course not.

You emphatically thank her for her thoughtful gesture.  You compliment her on her choice of colors and you gush about the adorable Mr. and Mrs. Santa Flamingo.  You point out the green tinsel grass as brilliant to the cousin sitting next to you, and you might even brag about the softness of the feather collar.  In fact, just to prove your gratitude for such a heartfelt, thoughtful gesture of slave-labor, you just may pull it over your head and strut through the kitchen so everyone can admire dear Aunt Sally's artistic brilliance.

Why?

Because it's not about the sweater.  You don't get warm fuzzies because the gift itself is something you love.  The person GIVING you the sweater is who you love, and what that sweater represents - thoughtfulness, generosity, and love - is what counts.  The feelings BEHIND the gift are what shoot out the warm fuzzy vibes into your heart.  Why is it any different when those feelings are encased not in a sweater, a coffee maker, or a fruitcake but in a verbal salutation of goodwill?

So how about we all agree to view these salutations as a personal gift from the heart!  Accept each and every greeting as a thoughtful gesture of peace and blessing, and dole out your own without fear of stepping on toes.  If anyone is offended, simply remind them that words are gifts, too, and they should be accepted graciously from anyone willing to bestow them. 

As for me, I'll be sticking with "Merry Christmas" unless I know for a fact someone celebrates a particular holiday.  :)

4 Comments
Recovering Lutheran link
12/22/2011 04:43:52 am

Merry Christmas! May you and your family be blessed this Christmas season.

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Gina link
12/22/2011 05:46:43 am

This one matches with mine. ;)

Merry Christmas to you as well! Thanks for keeping me updated on Bibi. Let's pray there is wonderful news to share over the New Year from her!

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Susan Adams
12/22/2011 07:07:10 am

I liked this article very much. I struggled with this a lot this Christmas. For the first year ever I struggled with how to send cards to people of other faiths and realized that for some of my friends sending a traditional Christmas card would be offensive to them so I didn't. I am going to ponder this the coming year and will be ready with something good next Christmas. My family has dealt with this within our family for years and I actually sent a card to one of my brothers families that does not celebrate Christmas. I did this because while I was making a scrapbook for my daughter this Christmas I came upon a "holiday" card he and his family sent to me a few years back. It had candles on it and referenced Joy, Hope and Love. It was his way of celebrating my Christmas with me with a card that did not compromise his beliefs. I sent him a similar card this year. It was the Twelve Days of Christmas. I always wondered where they came up with the lyrics for that song. It came about in England when Catholics were being persecuted and could not openly practice their faith. The Catholics went underground so to speak and made up a song they could sing in public that proclaimed their beliefs but would not be understood by their persecutors. Here are the details:
The partridge in a pear tree was Jesus Christ
The two turtle doves were the Old and New Testament
The Three French Hens stood for Faith, Hope and Love
The four calling birds were the four gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke and John
The golden rings recalled the Torah or Law, and the first five books of the New Testament
The six geese a-laying stood for the six days of the Creation
Seven swans a swimming represented the sevenfold gifts of the Holy Spirit
The eight maids a milking were the eight beatitudes
The nine ladies dancing were the nine fruits of the Holy Spirit
The ten Lords a Leaping were the ten commandments
The eleven pipers piping stood for the eleven faithful disciples
the twelve drummers drumming symbolized the twelve points of belief in the Apostles Creed.
So I sent a card that would not be offensive to my brother, but that did not compromise my beliefs either. And if he is offended I will apologize.
Oh my....this has gone on for quite a bit. Hope someone finds it helpful!

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Susan Adams
12/22/2011 07:13:09 am

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