Miscarriage Intention and Reflection

A friend of mine asked for prayers last night.

She suffered a miscarriage 10 weeks into her pregnancy.  Something she said really struck me (and I hope she doesn't mind me posting it here).  She said, "I was lucky because I attended Mass this morning, so my baby got that extra blessing before passing on."


Her faith is awe-inspiring.

I immediately wrote back and assured her of my prayers.  I am also enlisting you wonderful readers. Please shoot up a prayer or two her way.  She, her husband, and her daughter could surely use all love they can get as they wade through the coming months.

In fact, if I may, please keep all those who suffer miscarriages in your prayers.  I know of at least two other women who have recently endured the pain of hearing such news.  They and their families could all use support.

I'm going to post my reflection on miscarriage here.  I know I've spoken of it in the past, but it never hurts to repost something of such significance.  These cherished children the Lord blesses us with so briefly... they are meant for great things.


The pain of losing one (even before birth!) is palpable because for those of us lucky enough to carry life – even briefly – we carry within us the seed of divinity. The Breath of Life from the One who animates our mortal bodies takes root not just in our bodies, but in our souls.  

When that Breath returns to its Creator, we cannot help but mourn the loss of Divinity. We cannot help but mourn the loss of such invaluable treasure.

But we don’t really lose these children, do we? Instead, we are given them briefly so we can gain them swiftly as saints. And maybe these little souls are given this choice, themselves, before conception. Maybe God allows them to foresee their role as intercessor and gives them the choice. Maybe He says, "Will you consent to sacrifice your life for the benefit of My Will? Will you sacrifice your earthly life so that you can help the family you leave behind make it to My Kingdom?"

And those little saints – with the wisdom of Heaven unclouded by the stain of sin – jump at the chance to acknowledge and fulfill God’s Will. I truly believe they offer themselves to His Will for the benefit of their families.  They are gathered into the arms of their guardian angels and rewarded with the perfect splendor of Heaven.  

And blessed are those with such radiant saints before the Throne of God. Blessed are those who mourn so acutely the same sorrow as Our Lady who mourned the loss of Her Beloved Son.   I truly believe that God allows such significant loss specifically so families with special needs (either now or in the future) have their own patron saint to bring petitions before Him. 

And I believe my friend is blessed to be able to see the Hand of God in this tragedy.  Her faith is truly incredible to me.  I am humbled and empowered by her example.  May she and all those asked to endure this cross be gifted peace.  

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